Re: husband has no interest in going out with wife.
Respected Nadz, u know, he might be having his work tensions on his head…or may be some business stuff that might keep him from going out with you. I agree that its a big mistake most men do but its not that they do it on purpose or they intentionally do it. I was reading a book of a big religious scholar where in he replied to a man’s question that his wife does not even like to c him around her. And the scholar replied that you yourself are responsible for it.
I think, you should know his weaknesses like what makes him happy or what turns him on and tell him to do stuff when he is charged. Literally that can help. He called u jaan this means he loves u and likes u and knows that u are his jaan…this is a big word and you should feel happy about it.
A cousin of mine used to do the same with his wife and his father once slapped him hard for not taking his wife to his in laws and shopping at Eid. Since that day I saw a big change in him. Might u be friends with his mom and make her tell him that its necessary.
Just yesterday a very close office friend told me that his mother told her wife that you wana go shopping, plan wid me. Ur husband is a dumb idiot in this regard and merely reminding him each day would end u up with some old cloths at eid.
So its in most men nature but its a big mistake they do unintentionally.
And i wud request, no fight on this issue please. he calls u jaan … he loves u.