Re: Husband chatting to another lady
If in fact OP is right and the man is cheating on her, then this is ludicrous. Sorry, but I don’t think it matters whether his WIFE is fulfilling his needs. Yeah, she needs to examine their relationship and possibly her behavior but let’s not blame the victim. there is absolutely ZERO excuse for cheating/being unfaithful. If your demands aren’t being met, divorce her, but there’s no justification for infidelity.
From my experience, people cheat (whether going all the way physically or talking to another person that isn’t their spouse in a way that’s not innocent) because it’s a character flaw. Maybe it was brought to light by the issues the person was having with their spouse, but it’s definitely a part of THEIR personality. There’s plenty of people I know that have marital problems/aren’t getting their demands met but they don’t go out and start up a relationship of any sort with another woman/man. Married/committed people, in particular, need to understand the importance of guarding your eyes, watching their interactions with people of the opposite gender, etc because things can get sketchy really fast.
Relationship problems are rarely a 1 way street; usually theres an issue with both parties BUT like I said before being unfaithful is unacceptable.