Husband chatting to another lady

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Hi what would you do if you found out your husband been chatting to another lady for a year and she is a family friend?
You only find out by getting hold of call history itemised bills.
When you confront him and her they both say it was just innocent chats and no affair.
He does not say what were the conversations about. Every call lasted 5 mins to 20 mins every day.
His excuse for not telling his wife is because the wife does not agree to non mahram talking to each other without a valid reason.
The wife does not believe it’s innocent calls and he says she has no proof eg recording and that she can not accuse him and itemised bills are not good enough evidence.

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It's never innocent chats

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The wife doesn't trust her husband much!! Not sure what to make of the calls though

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is your husband goodlooking? was your marriage arranged? can you post a pic of you two?

ok seriously - no guy listens to a woman talk for 20 mins daily and enjoys it. maybe he owes her money.

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^And the other lady as well.

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Doesn't look innocent at all. I'd be pretty hurt and pissed if I found out my husband has been talking to another woman every single day for 20 min!!

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Dal main kuch kaala hai!!!

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Wait, he's talking to an African American lady? Where was this mentioned?

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Saari daal kaali we

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So what's the question? By OP.

Do u want husband to confess? Or jus validating Ur feelings.

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The excuses and getting defensive, definitely something wrong. The next thing coming out of him will be counter-accusations.

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Bet he wishes for incognito mode.

Jokes aside, if they were innocent he would not have hidden it from his wife.

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Innocaant my foot!

20 minutes?

Everyday?

For one year?

Chup chup ke?

He definitely has something up his sleeve.

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It's certainly not normal. Who would listen to a woman for that long without any incentives?

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:rotfl:
After I was done laughing, I signed in just to like this post.

Sorry OP, didn’t want to derail your thread but sometimes we just can’t help doing certain things.

If you can’t forget, atleast forgive. Please.

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well, apparently this wife is a very religious person as she does not approve her husband talking to to any namahram...

my response to this religious wife is....SO WHAT....remember he can marry 4 times by shariat.... and maybe he is trying to find a second wife.....something sharia allows him..so PEACE religious wife!

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^And if she is not religious but just doesn't like it?

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or do a better job of hiding these things......

Like Chief Shak said: Jokes aside, I dont think there is much talk you can do in 20 minutes.

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I chat with my ex-bf everyday and there is nothing fishy going on between us. He is married and I am engaged. :snooty:… Yes, the world doesn’t know… OOps. Did I just tell the world?

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Ehh? Whats that got to do with anything? Any woman, and I mean ANY woman would natually feel slightly jelous, anxious and suspicious if her man was chatting up some next lady. And just because shariat allows upto 4 wives, does not give this man a free pass to speak to another woman daily for the past year. So PEACE to you oh silly one.

Op, if this was innocent then it would have happened 1 or 2 times which is fine, but its been an ongoing daily occurance, so something is definetly fishy there.