Re: husband away
i dont understand why would anyone advice her to bring a kid into the picture..where nothing is sure as of yet...
*mother in law's unwelcoming behavior (she has just been married for 9 months!!!)
*disappearance of the "husband" (saath kyon nahin le ke gaya!! kisi ki larki la kar aesey kartey hain...!! she is not a toy.....!!) what exactly is he doing in a different country (questions to ask..visa issues? 2nd local biwi for visa purposes? if that is the case...He SHOULDNT have gotten married to the poor girl in the first place!) if he has majboories...take care of them before dragging in a poor soul.....to make matters worse..you are advicing her to bring in another masoom jaan!!) wah!! baap ke begair hi!! so you are asuming fathers' duty is accomplished after getting the woman pregnant..!!! jitni ma ki duties hain..utni hi baap ki hain..!!!
sister!!! make sure you have all your kids when/if the baap is present!! otherwise in laws mein reh kar pregnant hona..or phir bacha palna is very hard!! especially when your motherinlaw is not supportive of you!!