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some are even boys and men
Most of the gay guys would be happy I suppose !!!
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good job Sadiyah :k:
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and you are so happy for them 
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So you’re saying that gay men go to Heaven?
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thats what he’d like to believe.
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Gay or Bisexual people do not have any control over their feelings, I don’t know if it’s innate or learnt but they are not attracted to people of the same gender by choice just as a striaght person does not choose to be attracted to only women and feels those feelings come to them unconsciously… Fantasizing and attraction are two completely different things.
In Islam punishment is not for the feelings but rather the action (and possibly the fanatsies as well).
Homosexuality like every other test in life should be endured with patience and self control…
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if my brother does not believe in Allah, then i dont love him because love is for allah and hate is for allah. so i definately wont miss him if i enter jannah due to mercy of Allah. because he disbelieved in allah and thus he deserved what he gets. which is burning in fire forever.
so as long as i m alive, i will try to get all my family members believe in allah, so i dont have to deal with this issue in hereafter.
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Thank you…i’m assuming it’s all relatives not just “their fathers, their spouses, and their offspring” rite?
Does the Quran say anything about this for people who are not our blood relatives (besides spouses)?..For eg) step parents, adopted siblings/children and ppl close to u like friends or something??
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Yes i think husband and wife shud make sure they are following Islam the best they can…My concern is about sins…if u committed some sins before u met ur spouse (or at any time in ur life for that matter), and because of that u go to a lower level of Jannat, can’t the other spouse (on a higher level) bring u with them…i mean the both of u mite not be on the same page on the Day of Judgement, when it comes to who was more “Islamic” in the whole lifetime rite…but that doesn’t mean u love them any less, and don’t care if they r not with u 
And wot are Huurs…servants? Are they in Hell or in Jannat?
ThandyMazaq I guess if ur brother didn’t believe in Allah then that is very bad and he probably shud go to Hell (only Allah wud know), but i think u wud still miss him…anyway, yes u shud try to have ur family members all believing in Allah when ur alive…that’s not a problem, at least within mine…wot i’m concerned about is other stuff like sins 
, not whether we believe in Allah (which we all do).
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People "missing your relative" is a wordly feeling. We all have it, but with the rehma of Allah we will be able to enjoy Jannat. Remeber, all these relatives, your father, mother, brother, sister, etc etc are NOT GOING TO BE ON YOUR SIDE ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENT! This is a fact and lets accept it.. its said in Quran and I dont' think we need any other "Proof" for this.
No matter how much you love someone in this world, if they are not a good Muslim then they are not going to be weighed in same as those who were good Muslims. SO the BOTTOM LINE is that if you want your husband/wife to go to janat (or any relative/friend for that matter) than work hard to bring them on the path of Islam and make them follow Allah's commands.. then you shall both be on the same level of jannat (inshaAllah)
I don't understand why ppl make Islam so complicated, its very simple and easy to follow ..
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Worry about the actions in this life, in the next life we will not have the freedom of action anyway. What will happen will happen.
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I was just curious IF there was anything in the Quran about these “levels” cos i’m just trying to learn more…thanks anyway…i’m sure Islam is very simple and easy, but some of us are just trying to explore it a little and find out stuff we don’t know…I fully intend to try my best to help my loved ones, as well as myself to follow the rite path…yes Inshallah we all will be on the same level of Jannat as our loved ones…as fayax said wot will happen will happen…
Does anyone know if there is any truth behind something i was told in Sunday school when i was little…that if a father has 2 daughters, raises them and gets them married off, that he will go to Jannat…Is this true?
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wont the wife have problems with the hoors ? 
serious question here 
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Rashguy, Captain1, and The Game
Game is right.
Bad intentions/niyyat lead to committing a sin. Everything that you do are actions proceeding your niyyat. You have fantasies about same sex but then you sort of prevent yourself from having a physical relationship with them but that attraction remains how it was before then there is nothing "right" with that.
A good niyat is all that counts and it counts the most. You read namaz because your mom told you to and you're forced to do it without you wanting to do it then I don't think that namaz really adds up to your good deeds because you didn't have the right/good niyyat to perform that task.
Remember the sins that you commit are not only "actions" that you have taken, there is also the sin of mind (your thinking)...i forgot the Arabic term for this one but that's how it is.
I'm not picking on you, just wanted to make sure you know the right thing. :-)
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Destinee, bad intentions count ONLY when one follows his intentions and committs what he intended while good intentions count whether one follows it up with action or not.
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But the point I made isn't wrong either, is it?
I get what you're saying but then again, it IS bad to keep bad intentions but if you don't take an action then that's a result of your good intention.
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The ‘wrong’ in your point is that you agreed with the game where game said that one would goto hell if he fantasized about having sex with someone (same/opposite sex) whereas that is not the case. I don’t mean to approve of fantasizing or having bad intentions but for bad-intentions you don’t get punishment.
for later part of your comment:
“but if you don’t take an action then that’s a result of your good intention.”
Not carrying out an action (of bad intention) can be for many reasons not just “good intention”.
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all those ill-intentions which cause problems in this world are WORLDY things. Jannah is PAAK of such non-sense of jealousy…
Read Surah Waiqah for a better reference.
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if with 72 fresh raisins around one still needs brother and nephews around to be happy, one probably is in wrong place.:-)
i think anyone who is thinking about all this should not even bother thinking about jannath. so you're looking forward to paradise for the 'raisins'?? you don't understand what paradise is. you do not feel eternal joy and happiness because of the things which exist there, in paradise there is no desire and yearning for material things or human bonds there is nothing as painful as that. can i also say i don't know whether hoor means whore but what are you guys actually going on about ?? would there be whores in jannath?? i'm totally lost