Kaun - you are right. I have seen those **two **phrases used sooo often.
It has lead to really complicated issues but I guess parents think that anything is better than "not being married" or "being divroced" - even if you are not entirely happy.
They want distractions so that what ever problems you have - you just mask them with bigger things.
Sometimes it works - but most of the time the problem resurfaces once the novelty is over.
exactly the problem, but its not only us but our parents as well, they should realise that by hooking your irresponsible kid to someone else is not only risky for him/her but the other person involved as well. Khair this is an age old tactic and it has been passed on from generations to generation and its about time ppl realise it does not always work.