its every other month, but yeah he does it, oh n in regards to wat i got frm them, well lets see
2005 i had my first son wat did i get zilch ek kotta sika b nhi
2006 his frst budday again nuthing
2007 his 2nd budday oh n not forgetting his frst eids n watever in between again nuthing
2008 i went to pak n it was my eldests sons frst time meeting his dadyaal side of the family, he got 2 pairs of clothes
2009 my second son was born wat did we get, nuthing
its almost his frst budday n i dnt expect anything either
albeit wen its her kids birthdays hubs has to give 1k or more per bacha n on eids too (thts rupees)
just goes to show our generosity as to theirs
khair im not complaining, Alhamdollilah, i get wat i need wenever so i dnt
argue, its nt wrth it
we r IA going to apply fr his uindefinite leave next month n need every penny, but hes still sending money this month even tho his brother offered to send some, he said no i will, mens minds r too complicted to understand
he dsnt miind wrking 18 hrs in a row n sending his SIL the money then why shud i create a fuss n mke my life hell, hope tht mkes sense 
his brother on the other hnd is takin full advantage while it lasts a bit like hw pl tke advantage of the sale season 
, hes just spent 1000euros on a car theiry test course n is forking out another 2grnd for prctical lessons, oh n the rest he saves, but pak bhejne k waqt only 20-30, 000 rupee bhejthay hain
so far hes saved about 30,000 euros, n us 0