I was in similar situation , the only difference was he had 3 brothers out of which 2 had wives and kids. His dad was also earning. Like all of you know I did support my husband and gave him money. But I won't suggest you the same , he has no right to ask you to work . You are his responsibility same way his parents are. I have seen that parents emotionaly blackmail their kids and completely ignore the rights of wife and children. Every one has his/her own place and no body's rights should be compromised for another. I am assuming you don't have kids right now so when you will have kids Insha Allah and you might have to quit work to raise your baby then what will happen. I will advise you to tell your husband that see I dont stop you from supporting your parents but it's your problem to fulfil financial needs of your parents and mine as well. To me if you work and support the house hold and he sends his earnings back home then it's just a change of hands it's actually you who is doing all the work and supporting. I feel it's perfectly fine that in future if you have to work for your kids for their education and other expenses other than that it's not obligatory on you to work he cannot force you. It's his problem and he should find a way and should work on it .