Re: Husband and alcohol
dealbreakers: abuse, drugs/alcohol (I’m sorry but I put alcohol --even occasional use–in the same category as drug usage. “i only smoke pot sometimes” = “i only drink sometimes”)
re: praying on time leaving aside religious reasons…that came out wrong. I meant that I try to do things not ONLY because they’re required but becuase it’s also important to show your kids that. If my parents didn’t pray 5 x a day, I probably wouldn’t either. Prayinga t my house is normal , it’s a part of our routine. I dont’ want Alcohol to ever become “normal” in my life, occasional or not. I abhorre it and I would hope that I can raise my kids so that they aren’t tempted by it either.