Hurt by SIL's opinion of me :(

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Re: Hurt by SIL’s opinion of me

@Humper

I have always cared for my youngest SIL like my own sister. I have gone out of my way to always buy her perfect birthday gifts, always favoured her infront of her brother and always thought well of her. Last night I was at their place and she left her laptop with her facebook open. She was chatting with one of their old family friends who I have never met. I didn’t read what they were talking about but couldn’t help but notice the last few sentences of their conversation that were right in my face …

Him: “waisay us se kehna mat mujhe tumhare bhabhi khas ni lagi. ***** acha hai os se”
Her: “hahaahaahaha vese I know dat”
Him: “tum logo ke samne tu aur bhi ajeeb si lag rahi thee, lagta hai love marriage hai”

I just moved away from the computer and don’t know what else they talked about but suddenly my feelings for my SIL have changed. I am her new bhabi and her only bhabi and I always thought she loved me but now I wonder how many other people she talks like this to behind my back? Today I was talking to my husband and I was so upset that I just blurted out “you may be good looking but I am no less pretty”. He kept asking me who told me that I wasn’t pretty but I changed the topic. I feel like telling him but I know I shouldn’t and omg it’s like I have taken a sudden and extreme dislike to the girl I used to adore

i felt sorry for u.hope every one had SIL like u but they should also respect her from their heart.