well don’t let this thing have so much affect on you..in-laws are like that and never ever “unko zada sir per charhaana”…always keep in mind that they are ur in-laws and they can’t be ur friends or ur real sisters or brothers or mothers..
now listen this,atleast ur SIL didnt say this on ur face…my MIL once said it on my face that “mera beta chota lagta hai and tum us se bari lagti ho” infront of my SILs and husband…i was badly hurt and even had tears in my eyes but then i tried my best to show that i didn’t mind it..
in-laws are there to lower ur self-esteem..but don’t let urself think low of urself..