No, we are not even trying to reach him. Believe me, nor do we think we can even put some sense in his head. And he really doesn't seem to be "poor" according to standards. We're just discussing here.
As much as we'd like to ignore or deny the fact is that we need to educate our people about quantity in children. Not from the rizq point of view because that comes from Allah, but general health and upbringing. There's a lot that goes on after a child is born. I personally know women, educated families, where 4-5 kids isn't considered a big deal.. whereas in reality, the mother's health is suffering, many women become diabetic or obese, can hardly take care of themselves let alone their children. Why? Having kids is about adding to your happiness, not just being a production machine.
Now Nikki didi Allah ko mano aur tauba karo. Sirf rizq hi naheen Allah sub kuch karwata hai. He can't do a single thing for his kid.
Why aren't you understanding that Allah is giving him he can't reproduce now matter how much he make effort to do that (as bayaulads do and don't get child).
Allah must have something for them to do. You can't understand that.
How can you say that kay wife ki health kharab hoti hai buchchay paida karnay walay ki.
Hamaray mohallay main aik thi buchchay her saal paida hotay thay kankri si thi per sub ko palti thi. Paisay bhi bohat kum thay phir bhi masha Allah sub poora hota tha buchchay aur maan dono sayhatmand thay.
Aur hamari nani masha Allah kai buchchay thay aur abhi tuk masha Allah hayat hain aur tandurust kay apna kam bhi ker leti hain bus burhapa kafi aa gia hai.
That is so silly to say that wife get lots of problem or bimariaan. Jisko bemari honi hoti hai hoti hai. Meri ammi kay just half buchchay thay meri nani ki nisbaat laikin bemariaan hi bemaari thi aur kub ki wafat paa chukeen. My nani use to say "awww beta itnay kum buchchay". I was like what Nani itnay saraon ko aap kum kahti hain".
So you're saying women who have two or less children are healthier than those who have more than 2 kids?
Believe me there's too much going on about advertising family planning in Pakistan. You'll see posters and clinics everywhere in towns and in villages even health visitors also offer help regarding family planning to women. Or else we can make laws like China to force the lower class to not to have more than one child.
Niki didi jaisay logon ko bewaqoof bananay kay liaay to ishteharat hotay hain.
Niki didi wo aurat achchi khasi tagri aur sehatmund nazar aa rahi hai video main. Aur khaas baat hasad jalan bhi naheen rakhti kay uska miaan aur shadi karay ga aur buchchay paida karay ga. Aisay hi sub musalman aurton ko hona chahyay.
^ The way things are going in Pakistan, I think that law will have to be put into use. We do have a serious population problem, considering our resources.
To pooray Pakistan main buchcha ban muhim chalani chahyay kioon kay problem to bohat hain unko khatm karnay kay liaay buchcha ban forum bana dena chahyay Pakistan ko. Yayhi aap ka mutlub hai na?
Living in countries with high ranking in wasting food, energy and resources it is easy to point fingers at developing countries.
Haan ji. Yahan yay ban kartay hain buchchon ko aur games waghaira main aur shops main itnay khanay ki cheezain daily phainktay hain kay Allah ki panah.
Apnay Pakistan kay lihaaz say daikha jaay to inkay mulk main to bohat resources hain phir kioon yay bottle ka dhukkun bund kar detay hain.
No, I'm not saying that... but there are more chances of a woman who has several kids to be more stressed and more unhealthy. What I'm trying to say is that one must be thoughtful of making the decision to have so many children.
No not at all. It's your way of thingking kay more stressed and more healthy.
What thoughts of your going to do with your kids. They will do whatever they will like to do. No matter what your thoughts are. Every one can't have same thought. Even sisters and brothers can't have same thought.
According to what I saw all kids lady and father seem healthy and happy.
There are many couples in Pakistan who have kids 2 or less but no healthy and happy.
If he want why we want to stop him to not have kids. Whey we are getting worried about his kid, when we won't do any thing to help him.