Hum do humarey do

No, we are not even trying to reach him. Believe me, nor do we think we can even put some sense in his head. And he really doesn't seem to be "poor" according to standards. We're just discussing here.

As much as we'd like to ignore or deny the fact is that we need to educate our people about quantity in children. Not from the rizq point of view because that comes from Allah, but general health and upbringing. There's a lot that goes on after a child is born. I personally know women, educated families, where 4-5 kids isn't considered a big deal.. whereas in reality, the mother's health is suffering, many women become diabetic or obese, can hardly take care of themselves let alone their children. Why? Having kids is about adding to your happiness, not just being a production machine.