Hugging your Hubby!!

[annie_bibi]

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hawwwwwwwwwwww haiiiiiiiiii!
kinnay baysharam hain yeh!!!!!!!!!

more of a hot gossip for the aunties:P

[pakistanimard]

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its all about cultural sensitivities. you can go and hump each other if its considered normal in your surroudings but don't act in a way that causes discomfort to others. its cultural difference, you don't have to call it ''jaahil'' / ''backward'' etc etc.

[Deeba1234]

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Some families are ok with it nowadays.. In ours a hug is fine.. basically anything anything up to a light kiss on the cheek is considered ok in front of our elders..

[WendyDarling]

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As long as no desi aunty and uncles are around :D

[queen_24]

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@Umer

As many others have said, for most people in Pakistan this is a big No No. That doesn’t really surprise me. The kinds of comments you’d get are “Tum loogon kai paas apna ghar nahi hai?”

But this is not limited to people living in Pakistan. That kind of reaction is also quite common among the “Uncles/Aunties” living here in the West, especially the first generation, ie the ones who migrated here themselves.

yes, but I am not talking about PDA here, all I am talking about is, even when you are in your home with 6 to 8 people around and celebrating his bday or things like that… like where a hug is required… not hugging him for no reason or just a showoff!! ab ye to ajeeb hoga ke cake kat-tay waqt hum cake room main utha ke le jayen aur wahan hug karain aur wapas aa jayen

[Monk]

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@Niksik

Just the other day we were out at the Mall. Lots of crowd. Dude in front of me was wearing the same shirt color as hubby. I went ahead and squeezed his arm so I could get closer and not be separated from the person I thought was my hubby. He turns around and gives me a big fat grin. Some other guy. Totally not my definition of hot. Bummer. With extreme embarrassment I rush through the crowd and find the father of my children.

OK sorry to derail.

[tranquil]

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hmm. its been 5 weeks since I've hugged my husband in public. if you can call it a hug that is. it was this weird side hug that we did that made us look like we were posing for a picture. hugging is always awkward for us.

[hitman007]

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@queen_24

Do you think its okay to (have kiss on forehead or) hug Hubby while others around?? Ofcourse for reasons, like at the moments when you usually do it with everyone, as Eid Day, Birthday Cake Cutting Ceremony, When he’s leaving for a trip at airport etc etc?? I have seen people who still think it as awkward!! I dont know if its? Is it??

If you live outside pakistan then its ok

Sharafat ka taqazah yeh hai k na ki jaye sab k samny…

[The_Jinx]

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@Niksik

Just the other day we were out at the Mall. Lots of crowd. Dude in front of me was wearing the same shirt color as hubby. I went ahead and squeezed his arm so I could get closer and not be separated from the person I thought was my hubby. He turns around and gives me a big fat grin. Some other guy. Totally not my definition of hot. Bummer. With extreme embarrassment I rush through the crowd and find the father of my children.

OK sorry to derail.

[madz124]

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Maybe what you can do is, when you are around family, keep an arm's length distance or so. But when you are alone, plan something special for just the two of you (if it's a birthday/anniversary) and you can be as intimate as you like. If he is leaving for a trip, you can say your goodbyes privately in your room before heading to the airport.
My mom hugs my dad in front of the kids, but never when we have family over like my phupho (who already makes fun of my parents for being all lovey-dovey).

[maryqass]

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Big No No .little hug is fine but again all depends on the gathering and the occasion. But here in Pakistan i doubt few people would be comfortable and ok in doing so. who would want to be the talk of aunties and uncles lol.

[Qaidabad]

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[queen_24]

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@madz124

Maybe what you can do is, when you are around family, keep an arm’s length distance or so. But when you are alone, plan something special for just the two of you (if it’s a birthday/anniversary) and you can be as intimate as you like. If he is leaving for a trip, you can say your goodbyes privately in your room before heading to the airport.
My mom hugs my dad in front of the kids, but never when we have family over like my phupho (**who already makes fun of my parents for being all lovey-dovey).

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had hay!!

[Ali_Syed]

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@Qaidabad

This falls under larkipedia 101 rule #666 sub section baazigar - too much lovey dovey - no matter what country folks are in.

We are already connected via Facebook, Skype, eMail, abcd Messengers, fob messengers, freshie messengers, Phone, WhatsApp, Texts, Twitter, MySpace, CougarCentral, Google+, Gajar ka halwa, omlette, ice-cream, jelly bean, ios, friendship ring, break-up ring, engagement ring, wedding ring, bubble gum tattoo, secretSTASHofKITKATSgirlfriendDOESNTthinkIknow, oneANDonlyHAIRonMYchest, mil, sil, friends who keep an eye on who hubby meets and everything else in the middle. Little distance outside of home is not a bad thing.

GS doesn't count.

What's up with this quaidabad dude?

[queen_24]

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its not Quaid, its Qaid, dont you read it??

[krmaml1]

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@Niksik

Just the other day we were out at the Mall. Lots of crowd. Dude in front of me was wearing the same shirt color as hubby. I went ahead and squeezed his arm so I could get closer and not be separated from the person I thought was my hubby. He turns around and gives me a big fat grin. Some other guy. Totally not my definition of hot. Bummer. With extreme embarrassment I rush through the crowd and find the father of my children. :(

OK sorry to derail.

Is your hubby 'your definition of hot'? I mean hypothetically, if he werent your hubby and you ran into him like this grabbed his arm and he turned around and grinned, what would be your reaction? Just wondering.

[Niksik]

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@krmaml1

Is your hubby ‘your definition of hot’? I mean hypothetically, if he werent your hubby and you ran into him like this grabbed his arm and he turned around and grinned, what would be your reaction? Just wondering.

Can you just relax.

[Decent_6Chora]

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TLK, u gotta level the score…

PS: If you do not care much about “sharm nahi aatee” sort of comments from desis around you, be my guest …no that does not mean hug me but i mean hug your husband …

[Moodie_Foodie]

Hug hasband??? astaghferulllah sister!!
Im a hugger, hubs is not!!! So no public hugs for us!!! Hugging a strange man would be less awkward than my hugging my husband in front of his khandaan!!

[queen_24]

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^ you must be sarcastic… tell me… tell me vernaaaaa