Huge fight with husband

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Bcoz its duty of male children to take care of thier parents. Plus asking married daughter to contribute to household expenditure is wierd. She has her own life now and unless the parents have no other means, they shudn't be taking money from thier married daughters.

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By the sound of it, she doesn't have a brother.

What else is the married daughter going to do with her own money? Giving the fact that it is her husband's responsibility to take care of her.

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I don't agree with this. Parents don't "take"...they don't become foreigners in our lives when we marry.

Not every parent has a male child or even a male child that is able to bear/help with household expenses. Such is life. What do you do? Do you walk away from them?

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I find you strange Iconoclast!

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If you go back to my earlier post ... Daughter can give her money to her parents whether she is married or not ... But parents should not expect it from her or demand it from her ... And if she does not give to them she is not accountable like a son would be if he didn't give to them ... Even if they didn't need the money.

Man giving money to parents = tax (must be done in any case, if earning)
Woman giving money to parents = gift (her choice entirely what she does with it)

No one asks for gifts ... Well they shouldn't but you can demand tax ...

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your money, do whatever.

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You did what any other daughter would do for their parents.
If he brings it up again tell him that it's YOUR money and you'll do what ever you wish with your money!!!
I can't believe your husband is even making issue out of this .. would he not support his parents if they were not financially stable?

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what type of parents take money from their daughter . aur vo bhi jo married hai .. tauba tauba .. shame shame .. n these girls who r giving their everything to their mayka and ignoring their husband and in laws after marriage these girls are looking for fight and problems .. too much western influence to try tot contorl and be the bosss be the 'man' .. then whent hey get divorced they sit and cry

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what a beigharat aadmi! guys like this are sickening....

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You are seriously stepping on my last nerve. And here I thought your other posts were annoying.
Sorry couldn't help myself when I saw this post of yours!!

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accha...tumharay ghar mein maa baap behn bhai hain?

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People should really stop responding to Nadz, Soni etc.

They will just infuriate you more.

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really??

and ur trying to win over a guy with your thoughts or u actually believe this?

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what is it with you and ur "vesturrrn influaances" rants?? its spreading like a cancer on Life1. Somebody needs chemotherapy in the form of a shrink ;)

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Do you ever pay attention to the words that come out of your mouth ya ainwain bolnay ki aadat hai tumhari? Zara fursat millay tho sahi say Islam ke barray may parro aur seekho ke Allah SWT nay aurat ko kya darja diya hai

And your "western" bashing is getting real old real fast...

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why do you guys even respond to such flame bait?

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Really its just one person you don't have to gang up on him/her.
It's a waste of energy considering she/he just ignores you and continues with her/his bs.

If Soni thinks that westerners are so bad then she/he can stay xenophobic and have a limited view on life.
Don't waste your breath trying to convince people who are so narrow minded. She/he is just playing on your emotions.

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I’m not proud of myself for that. :nahi:

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Boredom

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Agreed…lapse of judgement. Won’t happen again.