Re: Huge fight with husband
Reha I based the suggestion from my own experience. My parents aren’t too well off either and we sisters have to help them from time to time. My husband knows their financial situation and is completely okay with me helping them out.
I don’t see why their financial situation must be kept hidden from the husband. In fact if he knows and understands the facts, he will likely also understand the need to help them out. Won’t it be completely bewildering for him if he thinks his in laws are doing just fine, yet his wife continues to give them money every month? Why keep secrets between husband and wife? It only leads to misunderstanding and needless drama.
Plus the damaad knowing about his in-laws money issues doesn’t automatically mean he will humiliate them at every opportunity. In fact he may become more sympathetic to them.