Huge fight with husband

[Reha]

Re: Huge fight with husband

@psyah

There is one small thing here … If you read between the lines it seems that her husband is more concerned about what she is doing whilst he is unaware of it. So I think as a wife it would be very useful for her to show her transactions to him or may be go through him to gie her parents money - But further dynamics we are unaware of too … such as is she living with parents or with hubby at the moment?

Even though her money is hers to do, he should know what she doing with it, in order for him to be aware of her actions. She should not keep secrets from her husband. You see!

At least then she can say look this is what I have given and you have proof of it all, so add it up and stop accusing me of things.

Why is everyone insisting its okay to discuss your parents’ financial situation like this?

I realize the importance of being open and I guess its fine if she tells him she is supporting her parents but its inappropriate to have him in the middle of it all.

How mortified will her parents feel receiving money from their damaad?

Unki izzat nahin hai kya? Its necessary they be dragged into the middle of this so they feel embarrassed and guilty?

Its insensitive behavior towards your mother and father…towards anyone’s mother and father.

Yes, shaadi hogayi. Lekin shaadi bhi to maan baap karte hein, unke baghair to koi shaadi nahin kar sakta. To shaadi ke baad unko kyun bhool jatay hein log?

If you cannot talk to him without a fight then its best to ignore it until you can find a time when he’s calm and can discuss without getting upset.