Re: Huge fight with husband
Decent, i don’t know why you put it this way.
Let me try it again. There is a Hadith which means something like this: Do not ask from others, even if your whip falls while riding a horse, get down and pick it up. Does this mean Prophet pbuh, is preventing us to help other people??? How absurd will be that conclusion. And thats what many of you are trying to portray. If someone will like not to receive from their daughter, does not mean that i mean daughters should never help the parents who need it.
My mamu was the only son of his father, who died when he was young. He took care of his sisters and mother. He did not like to accept any help from her sisters even when they wanted to. But my mother and father would take great affort to get gifts for him in ways that would help him out without giving cash. He expired a few years ago. My father, helped his son establish a business and helped him on each of his sister’s weddings.