Re: Huge fight with husband
But WHY is it considered inappropriate ??? Ok for once lets blame the Hindus/ Indians here , isnt it hindu/ indian culture that “ekk baar ladki ki shaadi ho gayi toh uske ghar ka paani bhi nahi petain” ???
If we keep sticking to notions like theses, do u expect society to change for the betterment ever??
For eg : Girls have to give dowry coz its not appropriate if they go empty handed ?? Log kya kahenge ??
Your clubbing it in the group just by saying “oh its not considered appropriate haww hai, dekho kaise maap baap hai chee chee !!!” You are not giving a logical reason.
The OP is clearly saying, that she is saving for the tuition as he is not going to pay for her education, she only helps out her family sometimes.
I don’t how we can advise people of donating certain percentage of their income to the poor and needy but if the same is directed to ones own parents because its not considered appropriate ??
Whether your parents need your help or not, giving money to them should not even be an issue. If our parents can go beyond giving us roti/kapda/makaan, then why can’t we ?? Kids don’t need ipads and iphones but parents give it to them, so cant kids do something for their parents when they are old even if there is no need for it?
It does not have to be about what i would do i what i won’t. In such scenarios we have saying that it depends, aap ki izzat bari hai, ya aap ki ghairat. I wud prefer to take it from my brothers, my sons, my uncles, my cousins.