Huge fight with husband

[Paheli00]

Re: Huge fight with husband

@bebo

Yes I do know men who contribute to the household knowing that their parents really don’t need money. They feel that parents have this right over them just like their wives and kids have this right.
My question was very much related to the thread since big claims are being made and judgment passing around.

I disagree on the relevant part but that’s ok. Not a big deal.

If men are living with their parents (ie. joint family situation), and insists on contributing to the household expenses, then I don’t see any issues for it.

But for the purposes of this thread, let’s say that the man lives separately from the parents, and regularly sends money to his parents even though he knows for a fact that the parents have no need for it.

SO…

Judgments are being passed on parents who accept money from married daughters in their time of NEED.

What judgment do we pass on parents who accept money from their son even though they don’t need it? Without any actual NEED, the parents choose to take money away from the man’s wife/kids. After all, they could refuse and insist that their son keep the money, and give it when its needed.