Huge fight with husband

[payal_sharma]

Re: Huge fight with husband

@Iconoclast

I can qoute the post where u did bit i will let it go.

Pakistan meiN hamaiN buzurgooN ji izzat aur farman bardari sikhai gaye thi aur ye bhi sikhaya gya tha ke, behen aur beti ko hamesha detey haiN, un se letey kuch nahiN.

If u had read my first couple of posts, i never said that its wrong for her to think of her parents nor i said that her husband was right to object to it. What i did say is that parents shudn’t accept money from their married daughters. Never claimed that Islam says so, its a cultural thing. And in my opinion its a noble thing for a man not to take anything from her sisters and daughters. If some people are happy in doing so, its up to them, for me i will prefer to starve then to take money from my daughter.

This is why daughters are not welcome in our desi culture . Coz you will be a dead man in the future , god forbid should something happen to you in the future even your rich daughter will just have to see you starve to death.

Does it emasculate you ( or other men who think this way) in some way ?? I’m not targeting you personally here , its the thought I’m targeting as you are not alone in thinking this way.

So if were starving and say your daughter brought you some food ( bought from her money) and say a strange man who is a muslim ( a very good one, a loving father /husband/son/citizen) brought you some food, would you pick A) daughter and B) stranger.

Should you pick B what justification would you give your daughter ?