Huge fight with husband

bebo · July 21, 2012, 8:37pm

Re: Huge fight with husband

^ Iconoclast- there is a contradiction. “Taking money from married daughter not honorable”.
“Parents expect their kids to take care of them”.

IMO one side thinks parents taking money not honorable. the other side contends whatever the daughter makes is her own money. So she can do as she pleases. She does not have to share details with husband. Both sides use culture and what is permitted in religion to defend their position.

**What is missed is - husband and wife are a team. For middle class to have view such as husband should support family and wife can do as she pleases is not practical. And parents accepting money from daughter is not honorable is outdated.

The wife and husband - as equals- plan budget and discuss prourities for spending**. And at the top would be helping parents.

Its is so very simple yet somehow people are unable to comprehend.