Huge fight with husband

[Iconoclast]

Re: Huge fight with husband

@Reha

I did not take a dig at your family…never mentioned the women in your household.

Please stop.

Islam is NOT Pakistani culture. The two are WORLDS apart. The responsibility towards one’s parents does not originate in Pakistan, its in Islam. And I think you need to read my posts more carefully. I said giving your parents money through husband would be considered embarrassing for them. Its not about them being a girl’s parents or guy’s. Why would you even think of putting someone older than you in that kind of spot?

Parents do not ‘take’ from their kids. They GIVE everything to them while raising them. One day when they are old and gray, those kids can simply try and give a little back.

Aap Pakistani ho na? Pakistan mein baray aur chotay mein farq to sikhaya jata hoga? Izzat bhi sikhai gayi hogi. Maan baap ki farma bardari bhi sikhai gayi hogi. To vo sab kahan hai abhi? Pakistan mein chor aye kya?

Why am I going through the manual with you?

The basic issue here is that men think a woman’s parents have no place in her life after marriage. No right to expect anything from their daughter.

And if that is Pakistani culture…then its a shame.

I can qoute the post where u did bit i will let it go.

Pakistan meiN hamaiN buzurgooN ji izzat aur farman bardari sikhai gaye thi aur ye bhi sikhaya gya tha ke, behen aur beti ko hamesha detey haiN, un se letey kuch nahiN.

If u had read my first couple of posts, i never said that its wrong for her to think of her parents nor i said that her husband was right to object to it. What i did say is that parents shudn’t accept money from their married daughters. Never claimed that Islam says so, its a cultural thing. And in my opinion its a noble thing for a man not to take anything from her sisters and daughters. If some people are happy in doing so, its up to them, for me i will prefer to starve then to take money from my daughter.