What would you do if you were married for a few years and happy etc etc, and then you found out your partner is not the…gender…you thought they were.
i.e. They had an operation before they met you, and Parvez turned into Parveen?
Would you stay with them? Would you be able to reconcile yourself to the fact?
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What if a rabbit went into his burrow and found two mice living there and onion peels scattered all around the living room.
Would you divorce your husband?
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you should change name of male you used for example....Eg.....parvez turned parveen will be more appropriate....dont use name of religious figures plz
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Did my husband make the mice come?? 
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^ Just for clarity, I posed an alternative scenario which has similar philosophical content and statistical probability as your original question.
Sorry man, those were the first names that popped into my head. I’ ll change em don’t worry
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Thank you…
That’s fair enough, but I’m sure us humans would have a different reaction to mice and onions than we would to being married to a post-op transsexual
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I think divorce is inevitable…
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What would you do if you were married for a few years and happy etc etc, and then you found out your partner is not the...gender...you thought they were.
i.e. They had an operation before they met you, and Parvez turned into Parveen?
Would you stay with them? Would you be able to reconcile yourself to the fact?
After years of marriage, mean living happy life with kids and she is trust worthy, loyal, very sincerer, carful , sudden its come to my knowledge, from other sources , I will feel sad, and feel betrayed, not coz she has changed her sex before marriage, but because she just not inform me, the major incident of her life, before wedding,
there would be no other way, than compromise situation, now it would be up to her, how she will convince me and give me prove that it was natural changed, not her own wish, and how again she build up her trust and bring me out from such painful situation, before i decide anything , i should give her some time, to see how she will reconstruct our relationship.
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I would leave and probably be really angry. I can't be intimate with someone knowing they used to be MY gender.
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How on earth would the man not figure out it was another man he was married to? Is the person blind or lacking mental capacity? The adams apple is usually a give away as well as the calves - as mens are much more muscular!
Then when it came to sex surely it would be evident he was bangin’ a man esp when ‘she’ insists on back-door entry:bummer:.
To answer your q - It would be the biggest shame/embarrassment brought to me and my family! Think u have been married to a man for all those years! I wouldnt be able to live with the ‘wife’ - instant divorce! Followed by counselling and probably move to a new country where nobody knows me.
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After years of marriage, mean living happy life with kids and she is trust worthy, loyal, very sincerer, carful , sudden its come to my knowledge, from other sources , I will feel sad, and feel betrayed, not coz she has changed her sex before marriage, but because she just not inform me, the major incident of her life, before wedding,
there would be no other way, than compromise situation, now it would be up to her, how she will convince me and give me prove that** it was natural changed, not her own wish**, and how again she build up her trust and bring me out from such painful situation, before i decide anything , i should give her some time, to see how she will reconstruct our relationship.
Er.... how can a transgender women have kids??? Changing your gender is anything but natural. How on earth is it a natural change??
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Its today news.
A two-year-old boy who was born with internal female reproductive organs recently underwent a successful surgery in the capital to have the organs removed. Picture for illustrative purposes only.
Abu Dhabi-U.A.E : A two-year-old boy who was born with internal female reproductive organs recently underwent a successful surgery in the capital to have the organs removed.
The surgery, which was conducted at Al Noor Hospital — Airport Road, involved the removal of the female organs, which included an intact uterus, part of a vagina and Fallopian tubes. In addition, the boy’s testicles were present inside his body, and these were lowered to the outside.
The two and a half hour procedure was conducted on the boy, who hails from Singapore, by Dr Ameen Al Gohary, consultant and chief of paediatric surgery at the hospital.
“No complications occurred during the surgery, and we expect to send the boy home by the end of the week,” Dr Al Gohary, who has performed six other similar procedures over the last 17 years, told Gulf News.
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“Despite the fact that he is a boy, the absence of an important hormone during his development in the womb allowed for the formation of the female reproductive organs,” the surgeon explained.
The case was first discovered when the parents of the boy took him to a hospital in Singapore, where they reside.
I just want to know either it is his mistake? , or he want to born like that? These kind of nature disorder are not in our hand, now when he will adult, what he should do?
Source gulfnews
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M. Butterfly" is not so much based on as inspired by the stranger-than-fiction account of French diplomat Bernard Boursicot, whose Chinese mistress of many years turned out to be a man.
Not only did the diplomat not know his lover’s true sexual identity, which is bewildering enough (“she” even “bore” him a child), but he was duped into spying for him/her, which led to his eventual arrest.
STAGE REVIEW : Seductive ‘M. Butterfly’ : Hwang Drama Finally Flutters Into Wilshire - Los Angeles Times
The 6 Biggest Badasses Who Lived As The Opposite Sex | Cracked.com
read about fifth spy
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Without being too crude about it, technology these days is not what it used to be, and I would assume that surgery is more accessible for a lot more people. Also it’s just a hypothetical situation, I asked the same question to one of my close friends and he said he’d stay with his partner. So just sayin’
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If he starts wearing my clothes, we're through. 2 women can't share a closet. Especially when he's picked my closet to come out of.
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Er.... how can a transgender women have kids??? Changing your gender is anything but natural. How on earth is it a natural change??
There are kind of transgender, naturally or artificially , you can search and find lot of cases where boy become girl or girl become boy and they are mother or father, after change in body hormones, I think here we are discussing the natural change in sex gender not artificial. Even now an artificial transgender may get baby.
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It would finally prove being gay is a choice after all!
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It would finally prove being gay is a choice after all!
exactly!