Hubby wants kids, she doesn't

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Re: Hubby wants kids, she doesn’t

@mirage

It is understandable that the wife wants to pursue her career and thats very much fine. But putting one’s self in the husband’s shoes, what options does he have left then? A desire to have one’s kid is very natural and normal. And when it comes to the comparison, is ambition or career really worth it more than the children? Also, i wonder if the jury held the same views if the case were vice versa, that is, if it was the wife wanting children and the husband refusing. What names wouldnt have been called to the husband then, I can well imagine. Oh and please nothing like “but a husband doesnt deliver a child, its the wife”… Its such a broken record. We have already over-ratedly enjoyed all of our statuses. That a woman delivers a child is a biological fact and also the greatest, the uniquest blessing from the Almighty and it should be taken as such.

-no offense-

Can you deny that the woman does the majority of the child-rearing for her kids though? =/ Shouldn’t she have a slight edge in the decision-making process bcos of that? I mean, think about it. When you have a kid, you’ll be spending your 99% of your time with it. Not your husband, much less for the husband in fact. No one is denying the blessing of a child - children are lovely. But they are not all that is important in life for a woman, is it? Everyone has different goals and dreams - including careers and education. Having children isn’t a woman’s sole purpose in life…maybe the most important purpose, but not the sole purpose.