Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
Giving flowers in islam is haram! so please stay away from these western devil worshiping traditions. It is because of these weird traditions other culture's women feel depressed. Stop celebrating valentine or anniversaries you got married La di frekin' da now get used to it.
PS> just kidding i would give my wife something new. :)
Almost every birthday and anniversary its the same: flowers. He doesn't bother to put any thought into getting me something I would actually enjoy. All he does is fulfills the formality. I would rather he didn't bother. So, should I thank him for the flowers I just got? or tell him how I really feel?
**Just say: Thank You for the Flowers!.
But Diamonds are for ever!...........:)
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My lady is anti-flower. She told me early on that if I waste any money on buying her flowers she will shove the guldasta up my rear. Since I don't fancy growing a flower bed there, I stick to other thoughtful variety.
LOL
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
You know some people have to buy their own flowers! Flips sake, get a grip lass!
Ok, I didn't realise i would get such a strong response from people thinking I'm such an ungrateful cow! the fact is I know the way his mind works, he's just jann choriya-ing.
Also, we are not really talking at the moment, so he just got them delivered by the florist and when he comes back from work we probably still won't really be talkin so getting flowers in between is just off-key!!
Anyway, I text him and said thanks so that I won't have to thank him to his face!
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
did you marry a robot?
just kidding.
I have to give him credit for at least sending the flowers even though you two are giving each other the silent treatment.
I think you are upset at him for something else and finding his flower giving mundane and not worthy.
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
What....
I doubt he is "jaan choriya-ing". Sounds like there is a fight, and this is his way of trying to make up. Just slowly start talking to him again. I would say thank-you to his face.
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^ Lmao PCG your advice is futile dont you think?
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
do u also give him a gift, and a new one everytime?
ps. give him gobi (cauliflower) on his every special occasion :@:
Ok, I didn't realise i would get such a strong response from people thinking I'm such an ungrateful cow! the fact is I know the way his mind works, he's just jann choriya-ing.
Also, we are not really talking at the moment, so he just got them delivered by the florist and when he comes back from work we probably still won't really be talkin so getting flowers in between is just off-key!!
Anyway, I text him and said thanks so that I won't have to thank him to his face!
dont text him ajuba. thank him personally, even if its a cold thank you, it will be way too warm than a txt msg
What....
I doubt he is "jaan choriya-ing". Sounds like there is a fight, and this is his way of trying to make up. Just slowly start talking to him again. I would say thank-you to his face.
i think you're right
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
Yea Diamonds work.
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Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
McPendo, it's what I would do.
Man is giving her flowers, and she wants to text him a thank-you because they're in some fight? Comon.
Would anyone do that to their mom, dad, brother, or sister?
Oh yes, I was once angry at my mom, so I sent her eidi (that I do all the times) but did not tell her and ask my sis to pick from western union and give it to my mom without mentioning my name. 
Ok, I didn't realise i would get such a strong response from people thinking I'm such an ungrateful cow! the fact is I know the way his mind works, he's just jann choriya-ing.
Also, we are not really talking at the moment, so he just got them delivered by the florist and when he comes back from work we probably still won't really be talkin so getting flowers in between is just off-key!!
Anyway, I text him and said thanks so that I won't have to thank him to his face!
Hunn i really don't know why people are flipping out here and telling you to be more greatfull, which since you married his butt i know you're greatful but you want something more, which is okay!! Isn't that what a mrriage is about, that you should be able to ask for anything from your partner?
And its really really simple.
Instead of wasting your time opening this thread you should have told him right on his face that he does not put an effeort into your gifts. ANd it doesn't matter, he can't do it, or he doesn't have the time, because to make you happy he needs to get over it. Just like you would do it for him.
Its a win win.
And you don't have to make it sooo hard like these fruit cake guppies here who think you should just put a smile on and keep it moving.
I really don't know what planet some people come from but thats not how a marriage works, you got to put an effort, even in the smallest things like a birthday gift.
Almost every birthday and anniversary its the same: flowers. He doesn't bother to put any thought into getting me something I would actually enjoy. All he does is fulfills the formality. I would rather he didn't bother. So, should I thank him for the flowers I just got? or tell him how I really feel?
so lets talk about aniversaries, I think those are a 2 person deal aren't they, so if he is not creative with anniversary presents, why dont you take the initiative and plan something, make it about something you can both enjoy, a nice evening out, some show, some activity, weekend away, whatever. Birthdays I can understand, but I really dont understand when any individual in a relationship complains about anniversary present not being something one really enjoys.
could you please clarify this comment a little more. How can a person marries someone’s posterior 
Re: hubby puts no thought into gifts
is that kind of nikah halal