Hunn i really don’t know why people are flipping out here and telling you to be more greatfull, which since you married his butt i know you’re greatful but you want something more, which is okay!! Isn’t that what a mrriage is about, that you should be able to ask for anything from your partner?
And its really really simple.
Instead of wasting your time opening this thread you should have told him right on his face that he does not put an effeort into your gifts. ANd it doesn’t matter, he can’t do it, or he doesn’t have the time, because to make you happy he needs to get over it. Just like you would do it for him.
Its a win win.
And you don’t have to make it sooo hard like these fruit cake guppies here who think you should just put a smile on and keep it moving.
I really don’t know what planet some people come from but thats not how a marriage works, you got to put an effort, even in the smallest things like a birthday gift.