hi SwanPrincess
Well its the same situation and same sort of story with me. it is ridiculous and annoying. i am a very upstraight person, my hubby's friend is his business partner, and they are friends from college, they were very close before but now they just business partners n just normal mates.
whenevr he comes around i hate him, absolutley detest him! they whisper in each other ears, and they go downstairs like they are talkin secreteve, but they r not! cos i hav herd it, and its all business talk! when i ask him wht u chat about he says non of ur business!
one day he was here, and that day was sunday, it was 1:30am, and we had to wakeup at 7am for work, he wouldnt go!! i said bhai aap subah ajana, bohat neend arrahi hai, with yawn, and my husband got angry with me sayin u shudnt hav said that, u cud hav said nicely stay over at this house ofr the night and go in the morning, when he lives 15 mins away with his wife n kids!!! im like HELLLOOO i am not wrong!
but anyway he knows that guy aint a good friend. well i do feel that he shud mingle with his mates, but they r not good at all!!
swanprincess just chill with ur hubby, if they do invite u for dinner or sumthin, say oh we hav to go sumwehre, we hav buked the cinema tickets or we hav booked dinner out or sumthin like that. its very annoyin i know!! Smile!