Re: hubby friends are leaches
Fashionista, its not surprising that you are not at all willing to understand the other side of the story. If take a moment from being a she-soldier and fighting for her special moments, and think about it objectively, bonding that the guys have is quite different from girl bondings. I have seen plenty of girls shuffling and switching friends, whereas in case of guys its very old, very tried and tested bonds. One man's life changes after marriage, other unmarried ones may not realize the 'specifics' of it and expect more of the guy's time just like the old days. It changes over time and it will change.
I respect the usual dynamite feminist views though - he should immediately get rid of all his friends since 'she' is in his life now with her lifelong nagging and should spend all his time pampering her. Dont explode, its not specifically aimed at your views, its the typical sistah-feministah ideas that annoy me.