Here's how it's going to go. People here will say two things. 1) Bash you. Tell you you need to communicate with him, show patience and everything will be fine. and 2) Bash him for being inconsiderate. Tell you to tell him how you feel and demand your rights.
It's his fault he hasn't been more considerate and partially yours because you have give him the liberty to take advantage of you. Regroup your thoughts, re-prioritize your marriage priorities and speak up.
Now, instead of reading the 450 posts people will write, talk to him. Unless you tell him, he may never know what's on your mind.
Now Breathe....
I can easily ignore those who only respond in an insulting manner.
I'm at my wit's end. I have addressed these issues with him several times. We've brought our parents into it, we've been to marital counseling, but there's a lack of mutual respect.
I also think it has a lot to do with the desi mindset. He grew up in Pakistan, I grew up here. I demand more than he's willing to give.
--and plus, I just wanna hear that I'm right, and he's wrong :D