I totally feel what you're going through sister. :) I have had similar problem. So i know how painful things can be.
But my advise is to tell your husband in clear words.
Can i ask a question: ? Your husband came from Pakistan after getting married to you ? or was it you ?
I've tried to be very clear. We even brought our parents into this and his mother told him he was treating me poorly.
I was born in the states and my husband had been here since he was 16. So we met here.