I understand the sensitivity of this thread... but i cannot believe how some people here are outrightly telling her that divorce is the only solution... yes it may as well be.. but thats not for you to enforce on her.. im just completely shocked that people have no hesitation is outrightly saying such things...
Sadz, I am not outrightly telling her to go for a divorce, she has asked the solution herself and can't you just see she's suffering through a lot. the 1st question is that, Isn't she a human being? Is abusing a wife, physically and verbally not a sin in your eyes? Isn't her husband torturing her innocent feelings and her happiness? Read every post she did before you point out anybody's advice dear, because it's not here about me or you. Its about her, i myself believe divorce is the worst thing, but everything which has happened until now is even worse. Listen i'll give you an example so that you could take it positively, if a women asking for divorce or taking "khulaa" would be that bad or all the people who're advicing her to go for her right and start a new life with new hopes would be outright then Islam wouldn't have given a women, this right. I myself said this because i can feel the pain she's going through and if you're so heartless and you think she should go on bearing this pain that this would be really shocking for all of us. and 2ndly she's not a kid now, she can decide what to do and what not to. As you can see she herself said there's a lot more that happened which is too personal to share in public. So that was all in my humble opinion. And give her sympathy words if you've nothing to say apart from pointing out who has the right to do this or that.