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I think lady should quit the job for some time and let him make money to survive :)
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Yeah she should listen to him and see what happens
Thanks everyone for your ideas and wisdom, this situation is a familiar scenario in most household, and most desi women face this but sadly there is not a nice and wise step they can take practically because of so many issues of our culture, religion or simply they don't want to break the marriage so they keep suffering.
Men usually are not very communicative and they try to take their anger out by misbehaving with their wives (just an opinion not a fact )some people are so difficult that you cant reason with them. My friend's husband seems a difficult person too. God bless her and her kids.
started with one household and after 15 replies bibi-sheerenay now thinks that situation is similar in most households. thats some progress.
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I would quit the job and let him deal with the after effects.
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the husband ought to get off his behind and be a good equal partner or else map his way out of the unfair burden of marriage on his patient spouse.
best,
Dushwari
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Why did she marry an uneducated guy inthe first place?
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main hota tou araam se ghar beth ke khata
bartun wagaira hee dhonay partey na? aur sath tv dekho, *nadia khan show *dekho, it doesn't get any better than that.
What? Why should she follow the advice of someone who clearly can’t get his act together?
Yeah. This seems awfully one-sided to me.
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Can't she reason with him?
Why did she marry an uneducated guy inthe first place?
ugh seriously
There is this lady who is working part time and doing all her household duties accordingly plus doing all her kids activities without complaining at all but the husband who is not making a sufficient amount of money keep bothering his wife to quit the job because he feels jealous of his wife's nice job since he is not that educated and all. He does not help out his wife in house chores or kids activities or homework and still acting this way, wife does not bother him at all, does all his work on time but he is still acting like this also On the other hand wife thinks that at a time of such a bad economy quiting the reasonable job that works well with her kids is not an act of wisdom. Please give sincere advise to the situation.
Peace mashah
May I permit myself to disect this scenario:
a) Lady working part time
b) She does all household duties
c) Additionally supports kids in their activities
d) She does not complain at all
e) Husband is not making enough money
f) He bothers wife i.e. insists wife to leave job
g) He feels jealous of his wife's job
h) His jealously is a result of his uneducated status
i) He does not help at all, i.e. no home, no kids, etc
j) Wife does not bother him
k) Wife thinks it not wise to quit job with economy the way it is
It is clear from the above that this information has not come from the man. Here is how it can be known. Read g) no man will say he is jealous, that is an interpretation of his action by a second or third party.
It seems there is a lot about the man that the 'lady' does not like anyway. She seems to despise his 'uneducated status'. She seems to undermine him because she has a job.
Read point j) Wife does not bother him. When some go out to 'not bother' their hubbies it usually means they are not 'giving them attention'. It seems that the man is from a typical family where he has been raised like 'mummy's little boy' in which case he needs 'attention'. I think with all the work the 'lady' is doing she may not have enough time for her 'uneducated' husband.
Point d) she does not complain at all ... I wonder how people are finding out about his traits and bad habits that may not be related to the situation?
Often when women work themselves too hard they will stress and then put blame on their husbands for not supporting. The resolution is to stop working yourself too hard. The uneducated hubby may be right for her to quit work. Islam (if they are Muslim) puts no responsibility on the women to work for a living. She may do this so long as it does not affect the home situation. The hubby seems to be disadvantaged in this relationship. So the wiser of the two should listen to him and find a way to appease him rather than fight with him.
As for providing for food ... God will take care of that. We need to concentrate on our relationships. Ask the kids what they would like to have mom at home or just the way it is ...
JL aap to baray smart niklay 
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she may end up breaking her marriage if job is such an issue
I think lady should quit the job for some time and let him make money to survive :)
i agree with namaan, she should quit her job for him and see what he can do for her.
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Thanks
and yea … let him prove him self to be a man enough 
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do chitaar lagao..he will be okay again
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She should listen to her husband and quit her job, I'd do that if I ere in that situation.
Why shud she listen to him, she is the bread winner 4 the family, he clearly has no sense that hes telling her 2 quit, him being a man does not mean she shud do whtever he tells her to do, seriously!!!!