Re: How?
glad to hear you're going to uk for delivery as its good you'll also get british passport for baby. but i think hubby should be there for the birth - its a real eye opener for men esp desi men as i hear in pk men can't come into the labour rooms.
anyway, make a huge change in yourself. from today onwards stop back-biting about his family to him and stop complaining to him full stop.
when he comes home from anywhere - give him his 30 mins space b/c men love their own time esp when coming home from work when they just want to chill infront of the tv etc. be positive around him and happy - even if you're faking it. he'll soon be drawn towards you.
you have us here on gs to help you through other issues etc so vent your anger and frustrations here instead of on others at home.
be extra sweet with mil and sil e.g. start collecting some gifts for them for eid eg maybe 2-3 prezzies. take your sil out to pick some shoes for herself for eid.
also get out of the house as often as possible. go for daily walks in evening. it does wonders for the head! pamper yourself weekly at the beauty parlour eg get pregnancy massages daily by amma etc, go for facials, pedicures, manicures etc. i enjoy the parlours in pk b/c of the amazingly cheap rates! lol.
let go of the past. its done and gone and can't be changed. and start being happier now b/c your personality will reflect on your kids.