How?

[Enigmatic]

Re: How?

@Theorist

She is his WIFE! She is going to be with him for his entire life. She has to be treated better than his mother or his sister. She LEFT her family to be with him. How should she expect anything less? He needs to learn his lesson but when things are not happening for you, you have to let it go and work on yourself to be a better person. THIS IS WHAT NADZ NEEDS TO DO RIGHT NOW!

I can promise you Nadz, this is NOT going to be forever. You can’t make him treat you better. With our desi people, it’s something you earn. I know it’s wrong but that’s how our society is. Women have to earn their respect and better treatment. This is not going to change for who knows how long. You have to make your life worth living. No one else can do that for you - not even your husband.

that’s quite true..so SHE has to make an effort and make her life worth living. Her hubby or her MIL etc won’t be the ones to change .

But by continuously complaining, moaning and bad mouthing about his family won’t make her earn respect and better treatment in her husband’s eyes. It could get worse. So it’s all down to one month now. Then she can go and have all the fun back in the UK for 6 months at least