How?

[Reha]

Re: How?

@stoppit

Well that’s just the issue isn’t Reha. He’s not treating her the same. He’s happy to share food with his sister but not with his wife? Good one!

I’m not justifying her behaviour but they are not treating her as part of the family. She is their blood now too. His parents should have more sense in regards to what they need. The mother should be encouraging them to out on their own and enjoy spending time together.

I know what you mean and you’re right.

I just think that if you compete with someone, it becomes a competition. If you don’t, it won’t. Nadz should not compare herself with ANYONE because she is his wife and the mother of his children. There is no competition. If she relaxed and stopped letting these things bother her, things will change. I doubt her MIL or SIL fight with the guy about attention.

He will do something (or not), nadzzz will get upset, have a row with him and guess who he’s running to? Mom and sister…the compassionate souls who don’t demand anything from him and give him unconditional love.

What he’s doing is wrong but if she wants to change the situation, she has to change herself first.