so u found out the hubby has been close to another woman for like 2 years. whether they had a physical relationship or not, tats not for sure. so now this other woman is telling it all and da wife found out. hubby claims he was under black magic influence. there is even proof that he went to seek help from religious people. everything is kinda fuzzy as to what is da truth and wat was done under the influence of black magic. how do u handle the hubby, to forgive or not? how abt da other woman? she stalks the wife and da hubby thru sms and email. how does da wife and hubby go abt handling this situation?
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Change email and phone number... forgive and forget for the sake of the children???? Divorce, beat him... ur pick....
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if i werr u…i would punch the other girl in the face and tell her to leave me and my family alone 
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Seek religious guidance/elaaj to counteract black magic and the woman's stalking??
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i'd check both side of d stories first, dont take ur hubby's word for it - these kind of situations cause you to doubt ur other-half's character.
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I’m sure that the only “magic” influence on his thinking can be found behind his zipper 
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lifts up his index finger in protest wife should have chopped it off, it would’ve only been fair.
the way i see it, “object causing problem taken OUT of the equation”. problem solved.
sure duracell will go nuts if that was the case
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look like hubby having just affair with other women as time pass but the other woman truned out to be all out to have revenge for play up with her. hubby initially would have though he could handle and can get away with this and also keep his family at home.
the other woman in question knew about his wife and was hopeful in someway, but when man got back to her wife or wasnt ready to leave her, she came back with all she has got. she had nothing to loose but you both have.
best thing is to forgive your hubby if you can and move on with life.
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hahahahahah ITA
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yupp, i guess tats da main confusion for da wife now. to trust da hubby’s words or not. i guess if da hubby is truly repentive he can build up da trust all over again. lets hope something good comes out of it. 
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yaar kiya cheez ho 
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^^ exactly what is he made of 
and regarding ur problem it all depends on u what u want to do if ur husband has really realised his mistake than i believe in forgiving and forgetting but keep an eye on him 
but if he is taking the mick than tell him to get lost:) does this wife have kids?
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nisa as u can see the men that posted above are telling you that he was up to no good...Id take a man's word for it....since men would know very well how a man thinks and what he is capable of.
Black magic or not!.....there should be no exception for a cheating man whether it was physical or emotional. He needs to be taught a lesson.....the lesson that you wanna give him is up to you....
although i could think of quite a few lessons of my own that i would "teach" to my husband if ever cheated on me.
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I agree with Angel Eyes.
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black magic influence..umm
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Oh this is a very sensitive issue actually... wife must be really hurt, black magic or not... AngelEyes has a point about all the dudes responses... But she should do what feels 100% right... i don't think she should leave things with question marks on them though, but be prepared to forgive for her own sake, not for his...
May Allah help her through this...
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oh how quick we are to jump to conclusions about another person eh?
what makes u think its not a button fly?
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what makes u think its not a button fly?
**Or even a Lungi..:D **
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if he was ANY more manly than all of us, he would have stood up and admitted that he’s guilty of adultery. .
black magic? sheesh .. MY ASS! its worst than ‘cuz i got high’
LOL@fraudz:D
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Black magic or not!.....there should be no exception for a cheating man whether it was physical or emotional. He needs to be taught a lesson.....the lesson that you wanna give him is up to you....
although i could think of quite a few lessons of my own that i would "teach" to my husband if ever cheated on me.
oh yes tats wat i told da wife too, he deserved to be punished. it would have been gud if she was emotionally and financially independant, wud have served him right if she cud leave him. but due to her circumstances he will be forgiven, but punished too! hehe...
so wat hurts a guy mostest, besides da kick in tat area of course? wicked grin
pk786: they have 2 kids.