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Itni achi marketing ki hai apni. haha!
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Experiences of life . If it won't become a habit then its all cool . Move on .
Plus guy is so dumb to share it with his gf . Must be very young .
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^So what, he should be dishonest? As if that doesn’t age him automatically. Sheesh kabob, y’guys! :halo:
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It's disgusting and unecessary and I could not and would not tolerate it. Most mature guys I know (and these are goras), have adventure weekends, go to a sports game, fishing weekend, yes drink but don't have strippers or women involved.
this.
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isn’t that just pure torture for the men 
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About these dancers..who knows what diseases they might carry even if it is private party yo..
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About these dancers..who knows what diseases they might carry even if it is private party yo..
Strippers are not hookers. Most of them live a healthy family life according to a documentary by PBS.
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Koi aesa wesa torture…
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Some stories are better untold - he shouldn't be sharing it with you for the starter !
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^I hope you're joking.
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^I hope you're joking.
No I am not ... See if initially he had been so caring , and knew that his girl wouldn't not like him doing what he did - he wouldn't have done it .
Secondly - now as he has done it - then what's the point telling the girl - who think of him so high ! indeed you desi girl think that their SO are some angel - No most of us men are not ... we do fall prey so such weak moments . err is bloody human .
Now from Girl's point of view - she should consider the way - the story was told :
if told out of guilty with a promise of not doing it again - Then she should move on ..... but if it was told to check out the reaction and leveling the ground for future endeavors - Then it is alarming .
may be - by telling this to her , he is trying to know margin he could get out it for future / marking the boundaries for future acts .
I have said it many times darlings :) ... to win our hearts - your lot need to think like a desi woman and act like a western man :) or may be vice versa for few odd couples :D
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No i don’t. But if your guy went only once then try to cop with it. Goes 2nd time, make life hell for him. 
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Experiences of life . If it won't become a habit then its all cool . Move on .
Plus guy is so dumb to share it with his gf . Must be very young .
Yes in desi dictionary, a guy would be dumb to share with gf. But if guy is seriously committed (no gf she-f stuff) then it's dumbest and highly immature to go to any such place if you know already that it can make your partner very upset.
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IMO it depends how god-fearing the guy is, - if he has iman (and is not just hypocrite) then you have nothing to worry about. I'm surprised that many people are factoring out what our religion says about such matters. We are not perfect in practicing our religion but I thought that would be something to consider...
I would leave, no questions asked - just leave. Some things should be compromised and worked through - getting aroused over another women's body, while having a partner/wife, is not one of them.
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No i don't. But if your guy went only once then try to cop with it. Goes 2nd time, make life hell for him. ;)
What are the other reasons a girl will make life hell for her man ?
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What are the other reasons a girl will make life hell for her man ?
Do you really think they need a reason?
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for male strippers paycheck please refer to @shahreyarkhan
firenze: is this what your parents taught you?
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majority of the people on this planet consider themselves as associated with a particular religion. while religious provides a set of rational rules, you comment about almost all of us do many things etc etc does not make any sense
A muslim does not go to a strip club and commit adultery because it is wrong, he does not do it because he fears the ultimate accountability
expecting husband/children to capable of making mature/good decisions and at the same time being OK with them going to strip clubs is a complete confusion of ideology
rest are just extra comments
Almost all of us do many things in our lives simply based on how we feel or "just because". Whether it makes sense or not....the fact remains that many of our decisions are made without any rational/solid basis behind them. Although you may be a rare exception to that. :)
Firstly, regarding dating. Would I be ok with my kids having a different BF/GF every few months and having sex with almost half the town? No. Would I be ok with my adult children dating men or women with the purpose of being in a long-term relationship that will hopefully lead to a lifelong marriage? Absolutely!
Secondly, from what I know, being 21 is a requirement (at least here) to get into strip clubs. I hope by the time my children are 21 or older, they're capable of making mature/good decisions, and are living on their own. I don't plan on keeping tabs on their daily moves (including social ones) once they become adults. What am I going to do if I find out my adult son went to a strip club? Ground him? Lock him in his room? Besides, do you know any man (or woman) who actually talks about their "strip club adventures" with their parents?!
For what its worth, My values/beliefs/morals/tolerance is very different than what my parents believe in. My parents don't always agree with what I do or the decisions I make for myself. But they have always made it clear to me that they will love me no matter what. They have never once made me feel that I'm any less simply b/c I made a choice that they don't agree with. In the future, I don't expect my children to follow my beliefs/values/morals like a robot. I'm sure there will be times when their decisions/choices will dissappoint me and make me angry. But at the end of the day, my love for them will be unconditional.
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dude why so serious? i simply refer people to you if they want to know the pay 
.. pataa kar k bata do, whats the big deal ..
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next time be careful what you say