You’re in a relationship of a couple of years with someone… who’s always been very loyal and decent. Then, he ends up going on a ‘stag do’ with his male friends.. when he comes back he tells you he went clubbing etc and also admits he went to a ‘gentlemans club’. (I know… I know.. That’s generally the sort of stuff that goes on during stag do’s lekin phir bhi)..
How would you feel? How would you respond? What would you say to him? Would it or would it not affect you? Would you let it jeapordise your relationship?
Discuss please.
And guys, if any of you are in a relationship, married etc, how do you think your wife/girlfriend/fiancee would react?
if club is limited to dancing(no vulgarity/etc etc) then I could not see any problem, but if it more than that ( )then you should review your relation(in my opinion, break up is recommended action).
Clubbing doesn't bother me but him going to lapdancing clubs would.. Having said that if it was a one-off I'd make my feelings clear then try and put it to the back of my mind (but if it went further eg 'private dances' or 'extras' I would dump him without hesitation)..
"gentleman's club"....especially if lap dances were involved...umm...would not like that at all...if it were a one time deal, only for a bachelor's party, I guess I could come to terms with it...however, if were to become a more than one time occasion, I would definitely re-evaluate the relationship
It's disgusting and unecessary and I could not and would not tolerate it. Most mature guys I know (and these are goras), have adventure weekends, go to a sports game, fishing weekend, yes drink but don't have strippers or women involved.
Normally people have control over them-self before chain of events occur and they lose it. My philosophy is to stay away while your brain is still in control.
It's disgusting and unecessary and I could not and would not tolerate it. Most mature guys I know (and these are goras), have adventure weekends, go to a sports game, fishing weekend, yes drink but don't have strippers or women involved.
Agreed.. so you'd end a relationship over it without a second thought?
Normally people have control over them-self before chain of events occur and they lose it. My philosophy is to stay away while your brain is still in control.
)then you should review your relation(in my opinion, break up is recommended action). 
