No, I haven’t. But I have plenty of non-desi friends who have for stags and such and generally, they don’t go to ‘upscale’ places. Besides, as I said in my other post, I think in the UK and Europe, it’s pretty different from USA. The rules are much more lax. Usually all the guys are coerced into getting a lapdance. There was one friend who I thought would never go for it because he hates that kind of stuff and is really committed to his girlfriend but on his brother’s stag even he ended up having one.
I guess coz of the difference in local culture, it is probably useless to compare. I personally think a guy going to a stag here will find it difficult to just go and not do anything more.