…orrrr the guy could just be respectful of her wishes and wouldn’t go regardless?
I have no problem against strip clubs (heck, I plan on going one day out of curiosity), I also understand that people can go into strip clubs and watch from a distance or with their friends and call it a day. BUT there are preferences out there that you can have since it’s YOUR relationship, you don’t necessarily have to be okay with something if it makes you uncomfortable just because everyone else is doing it or it has become a norm. I’m not talking about you, Paheli. Just in general that a lot of women will conform to popular things even if it makes them uncomfortable. If it makes you feel weird, it makes you feel weird and the person you’re in a relationship should know that. If he/she still chooses to do those things then that’s another issue on its own.