how would you react if

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@angel25

how would you react if you find out that your in laws are hiding something from you..for example there is some problems in the family but they told everyone at home not to tell you just because you are not from the khandaan..everyone in the family including the other bahus (they are from the khandaan)

and then someone tell you about the problem and say they were told not to tell you because maybe you will tell your parents and they will make fun of the in laws

how would you react if mother in law is talking to someone in the living room and when you enter, they just stop and when you leave they start talking again

its just shows that you have not earn their trust yet. Just because you are bahu in the family does not mean that they are obligated to share all the secrets with you. Also that fact that they dont mind sharing with other bahus means that you have to earn it.