How will you react..??

if your husband, wife, fiance, girlfriend or boyfriend try to chek your mobile, phone calls and messages?

i think this shows lack of trust. If you don’t want anybody touch your mobile without you permission this does not mean their is something fishy. mobile is a personal thing. If people have this thinking i think they are mentally sick..

my husband and me we never checked or curios about what husband and wife have in mobile. if ever he try to do so i think I’ll gift my mobile to him and asked him do what you want to do now or us k bad **** :smiley:

if this happens to you how will you react?

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I think its a really bad idea to check his mobile.

If I do, i ll be only curious to see that is he keeping my msgs that i send him every now n then or he has deleted them :ASA:

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My girlfriends in the past have had a nasty habit of answering the phone for me. They even answered when my mom called. So yeah I got issues with it now :D

I used to be nosy at like 18/20. Not anymore. I don't care too look at such stuff.

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We have no privacy for each other, so no big deal.

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when my bf asks for my fone i hand it to him straight away, even sometimes when i dont have my bag with me just my fone i jus hand it to him to look after. Its not big deal, Nothing to hide so why am i gonna say no its 'private'? What could possibly be private on a fone??

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i have always beena drama queen abt my personal stuff.

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don't you guys ever think why he or she is curious about your mobile phone? its not a big deal if he or she take mobile for a while to call someone but to check what you have in your ph.

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You are getting a wife plus secretary, what else you want :p

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i wouldn't mind, i might do the same if i were bored.

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Men with 2 phones and security codes on them = untrustable!

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^agreed. End of.

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I have nothing to hide, but I like to know that the other person respects my privacy. It goes both ways. No respect for privacy is a deal-breaker for me.

If he does it without really thinking, I have no issue with it. But if it happens out of a sense of "I want to see who messages her and what they say" then that's a no-no.

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I think specifically checking my phone would be a bit odd...but I would let him so he felt stupid doing it.

THen, I would ask for his. :)

Jokes aside, I dont really think it matters...people get suspicious when you give them a reason.

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i wouldn't care...

if i was having a fling on the side, i'd prolly keep a saparate phone anyways that my sig other wudnt know abt..

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If my guy was to do that...it would break my heart cause that ment he didn't trust me. He would need to have a very good excuse....

And like FT said....the only reason i would check his phone, would be to see if he kept my messages or deleted them :P

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ummm. if my mum wants to see my phone i'll give it to her straight. there's nothing i'm hiding and besides if i was to say 'no you don't trust me blahblahblah' she'll just try sneaking her way to it.

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Yea I agree with you sweet.i.f. I would give it to my parents straight as as well....Personally I think there is a difference between your parents asking you and your fiance/hubby/bf asking you..

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i don't think the phone should be checked without permission.

i personally would feel uncomfortable if a guy wanted to look through my phone and i'd feel uncomfortable looking through someone else's phone. if a girl is going to look through her husband or bf's phone, there should at least be somewhat of a comfort level and she should know him really well. IMO, it's odd to do that in the beginning of a relationship.

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Imagine if they find porn inside your phone.

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I don't mind if my husband checks my emails, texts, voicemails, emails, PMs, letters, anything. My life is an open book in front of him and I really don't have an issue with that. he knows that and but still he asks me before he needs to access my account for any reason.