How Vital is Intellectual Compatibility?

[rizla86]

Re: How Vital is Intellectual Compatibility?

@Maham

Intellectual Compatibility is alot more about similiar speed of understanding, amount of knowledge and very less about similarity of opinions. One must be able to have an interesting and stimulating conversation with their partner and vice versa.

THAT is really important and I think it comes down to education, if the two are educated to a similar level they are more likely to be on the same wavelength. Other factors like childhood, upbringing also come into play when it comes to compatibility.

What I can’t stand is smart, intelligent people going for shareef, gharelu girls with basic education, how are the two supposed to have an interesting conversation? If you look around at your best friends, it’s obvious that one of the reasons you’re friends with them is the intellectual compatibility you share with them. A wife should be like a best friend, with benefits =D.