How u tell some1 u love them?

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how you are supposed to tell some1 that u love them?

and for those who know me, please dont assume anything :nono:. I just want to know :slight_smile:

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just tell them how you feel.

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Impulse, just send me a PM. I won't mind :D

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I intend to, but when it comes to the time…I dont end up doing it. we usually start talking about other things :bummer:

StarSky…dont flatter urself :stuck_out_tongue:

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U dont. If you really do they will know.

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That's nonsense ashtray. A lot of men/women are clueless. You need to spell it out for them.

I agree with Majestic. Just be honest about how you feel. There is no right or wrong way to do it. Just follow your instincts.

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That has to be the most sensible answer to the question.

Actions speak louder than words!

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Hmm.. If the person is really dumb then I guess you do have to spell it out for them. :hehe: I am sure Impulse won’t fall for an airhead.

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Hmmm i wouldnt guess someone "loves" me unless they spell it out. There is no way i am going to assume they do and make an a$$ of myself.

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^ haha.. :rotfl: .. That’s not a pretty sight either.

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i dont really think it about assuming that they love you, its about how they make you feel and how you make them feel. You can love someone without telling them and without showing them. you can just tell...loves too abstract for this whole do they or dont they stuff.

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Mehnaz, I think saying 'I love you' every other second just makes the whole thing a bit cheap. The words 'I love you' dont prove anything.

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I agree with you…even if u r 99% sure there is still that 1% doubt. and to be sure, it has to be said :slight_smile:

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Acha what happens when one person says it but the other does not reciprocate? even when you know that he/she does

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Impulse but then who will confess it first? ......

I agree with Miss_mohabbat -- love is too abstract to decide whether you should do it or not..

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"love" waghera sab kuch bekaar baatein haen
i only believe in shaadi
without shaadi whats the point and how do u define "love" anyway
bleah :p

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If i knew the other person, (e.g., my fiancee doesnt like spelling out I Love You his every waking minute), then yes, saying it all the time might kinda “cheapen” it as ashtray mentions. I know he loves me even though he doesnt say all the time, because his words and actions portray that. On the other hand, if a friend was just nice and caring towards me, and i mistakenly take that as that they love me, i would be in an extremely embarassing situation.

I think if i were to tell that to someone, i would perhaps just let them know i deeply care for them. There are no ifs and buts around it.

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I agree. Anyway, I’m not advocating say “I love you” to every other person who comes into your life.

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In a way you can tell if someone loves you. They do the simplest of things for you that others wouldn't. They're always there for you even if it means them putting themselves second. The way they look at you and how they get nervous, tone of voice changes and pick their words carefully when they talk.

The three magic words are basically the icing on the cake or the finale. Either way, it has to be said eventually.

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I dont think it matters who confesses first.

this is totally unrelated by the way :stuck_out_tongue:

for example the other day I was talking to some1…the issue came up about calling random girls ur “sisters”…so i asked the guy “do you see me as ur sister?” and he said I put him in a tight spot…so then he asked the same q back without answering…and we went on for ages asking each other…and finally he answered, saying he does NOT see me as a sister.

so yeah, it doesnt really matter. whoever asks first should get the answer first :rotato:

nain....