How tough are you?

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I mean not physically but mentally?Like in accidential situations what is your response? Do you start crying or get angry or shocked? Because people who don’t loose their senses are wise ones but I am not the one.I am panicky sometimes :bummer:

Express your views how strong are you?

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from a scale to 1-10 ...I'd say I am a 8.5 in terms of being tough/strong. Alhamdulillah...I dont panic.

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Mashallah AE thats great.

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Mashallah AE.

Depends on what ever happened - if something concerning me is wrong then actually nothing is wrong , but if someone else is bothered , thats different :)

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I guess it totally depends… in what kind of a mood I’m in :bummer:

Sometimes I can take total control of a situation and other times I just freeze :bummer:

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In such situations , all of sudden a guy pop out of myself and I tell ya he is very rough and tough . :chai:

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oh i m nt...m very sensitive n emotional! i wud eaisly breakdown but than in some situations i can strong too like just few months ago my sister was told few days b4 her delievery date that she wl have 2 have the delievery done rite away and that too thru an operation so everyone was tensed including me...she n mom were crying but i tried to be brave and made her feel that she shudnt be crying but praying that things go ok....and i am very encouraging most of the time no matter how worse a situation is i always try and see a solution for it. But at the other side i am totally an emotional wreck and would end up crying literally at a drop of a hat.

Kis Kis ne COKE pini hay :)
Kis Kis ne COKE pini hay :)
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No, I don't cry when someone else is around or show my distress...I keep my emotions and feelings all bottled up...

However, this is something I am born with, not something I acquired...And I don't actually encourage or appreciate such behavior because in the long run, a person like this tend to get very, very stressed out for not letting his/her emotions out....Some may even get nervous breakdown because they keep everything inside their minds and that keeps boiling inside like hot, molten lava...

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I dnt cry unless the situation is really bad. I cried a LOT when my grandmother passed away and shed a few tears a few weeks ago too. Other then that, I try to wait for an appropriate person and moment to share my feelings with.

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hmmmm to an extent that some people call me insensitive. :hinna:

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am i having a deja vu or has this thread already been posted before

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time has made me tougher than ever

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I don’t know mein ne to nahi dekhaa :bummer:

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sorry, must been a deja vu... too much GS on my mind.....

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I do panic...but depending on the situation...and how it needs to be handles...I get into the "have to do it " mode:)

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Aliyish Does the guy that pops out has a cabage for a head? Like in that Men in Black alein dude character? :@: I’m just curious :flowers:

Me? Hmm…I’ll just say may Allah the most subhan wata ala, never put me through another test along with all those that come across this post… for you can never predict precisely. Who knows… not always we may act the same as we have judged ourselves as from the past experiences. For each one that occur, it helps us grow. Growing with it helps us cope and grasp the reality of aspects more… which may also trigger us to handle a situation far more better in a logical way. Oooh I don’t know…its all seems very bafflegabish. :bummer:

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I can usually deal with tough situations in a sensible way. But it's always the little things that hurt me eg. someone saying hurtful stuff or getting mad at me brings me to tears right then..

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It means you can get easily hurt. :aq: but you know how to deal with it.

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ditto :(

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emm well i never panic alhumdulilah, i cant remember even a single occassion where i lost my sanity. i lost alot of family members and friends in a short span of time but i dont remember crying might be cuz i had some responsibilities to take care of others, but not panicing or not crying doen mean u r tough tough. i get hurt very easily, m very emotional but i dont show it, and sometimes u really wana cry but u cant cuz u know if start crying then there is not gona be anyone to offer patience to others.