how to talk to husband

sryope · January 29, 2014, 10:23am

Re: how to talk to husband

a lot of things bug me about your situation but the i can’t seem to get this statment out of my mind. Why would you pay for your vacation and he pays for his…werer you not married at that time??? Husband and wife shoudnt separate expenses on a vacation.

My husband plans to visit few places with his buddies when they turn 40, and maybe go to the next superbowl …something they came up with and i am totally ok with that. But a trip alone doesn’t make sense at all. I have been married for 3.5 year and have a toddler too…travling is harder with them but not impossible. We look for place they will enjoy.
Even the first trip you described sounds like something you husband planned and manipulated. I find this VERY odd.

I would stay strong on my point, ignore his silence and tell him NO vacation without family.

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we both were working at that time and he came up with the travel alone plan. i asked him that we should go together , he made an excuse that he doesn`t have enough money so we divided the expenditure and each paid 50%.