Tell him to stop. Straight out. Tell him that your not going to accept this. He can keep all reasoning to himself, you will not put up with this. If he does not stop chatting and meeting up with these girls you'll take extreme measures. Yes, that sounds harsh but honestly what his doing is not right either ... it does not seem like his up to any good. I may be wrong. Don't accept his reasoning, it seems like you give in to his arguments and kind off accept what he says..don't. If he can't share whatever his doing with his wife then there is obviously something wrong. Let him know that until he does not stop, you will not let this issue go.
i told him while having soft discussion and its the 1st time i won that its all bcoz of you guys as you have gave me such strong points which clears my side.yes b4 it i gave in to his arguments but this time i had great stuff with logics thanx for giving me such logics and advice.
Here , There , where -------U here U where U there -V HERE V NOT THERE --If U HEAR what V say HERE---- U end up NO WHERE ---so just HEAR UR conscious --Ur there V r here ---so here where up there down here --nothing matters -NO FEAR that is all that U need to GEAR and STEER UR marriage ----------------------NO TEAR -NO FEAR --
look what ever in Past U cannot change --what important is is Today and present any decisions U make Today vil be Ur future --make sure u make them right --the MORE U HEAR WHAT V SAY HERE --hmmm
and DOUBTS --Na Na Doubts are nothing than illusions of mind the more U doubt the more they become reality ---bcz Doubts cause negativity and what U need is all Positivity -------------------
Doubts are the worst disease that have no cure -if it would been for doubts I put 7.5 billion people in incarceration --
It is Ur marriage and U must save it at any and all cost -------------Breaking apart always cause devastating effects long lingering effects ---and doubts suspicions -hmm they are like throwing a stone in a pound or in water they cause nothing
but Ripples effects --Stop doubting and Just concentrate on Facts ---------and only facts even for an adultery you need 4 EYE witness ---Dang must be a Party going on na --4 EYE witness -where the heck people just accuse someone of adultery and can't produce a Single EYE witness -----------??? ( this was for Poor/unprotected woman-- U accuse them and U found them in pieces or stone to death)
Like i said before MAN DO___HEAVENLY ORDAINED ---WOMAN DOES THE SAME __SINNER --BURN IN HELL --
SO HERE V GO AGAIN --------------------------------Nothing is more Important in UR life to save UR marriage and The hammer ?? i was going to use rolling pin but that is old fashioned na --U tell him this hammer is used to break UR phone --
Next time U use it for the purpose it is created for "CRUCIFIXION" so he better act as a nice hubby Lovey dovey --and a Good father -----------------------
worry not ALL IZ WELL ----------------------------------
^ Do we need a leap of faith to comprehend what is written above?
Nope----Just Love -mercy compassion --humbleness-- wisdom ( optional ) -----------forgiveness ( important ) -------
IF all fails ---------U can ask MOI directly -----------------If U need U can use Mulla goggllo translator --it will provide U translation in Ur native language = I HOPE IS LOVE ??
If not they have other optional languages .........................................................................................................................................
Tell him that you have found a boy that you are chatting to ... For fun ... Just flirting with a guy on FaceBook ... See how he likes it.
I am sorry but I don't think in this circumstance this is the right advice. She is trying to stop him from doing something and do you really think he will stop just because she tells him she is talking to a guy. In my opinion it will only backfire because it will just sow a seed of suspicion in his heart.
As they say laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone...the best way to deal with challenges is by taking care of yourself...you have to be your own best friend, look after your health, exercise, eat well dress well...look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are strong and you are beautiful...cheating is never about attraction, it is about power and ego, husbands of amazing Hollywood stars often cheat on their wives and many times with very unattractive women.
Be prepared for everything upgrade your employment skills use your time on improving yourself and not worrying about him. Once you are strong you can face life.
Just keep in mind one thing. Every man is a flirt. Some act on this urge of flirting, some avoid acting on it, but you will find in their hearts. Every man will check the other chicks out in the shopping mall whether he is alone or with someone else. He will do it no matter what. So better accept this one thing as long as he doesnt cross the physical limits.