how to stop loving my husband

[Paheli00]

Re: how to stop loving my husband

@Reha

No Paheli, you’re not the only one.

I just don’t know what else she can do if she doesn’t want to leave him. If she stays, she has to tackle this in a way where it doesn’t turn into a bigger problem. If she leaves, well she’s free and doesn’t have to deal with him at all.

You’re right…I also don’t know what advice to give OP since she has already spoken to her husband. To be honest, my comments weren’t specifically to her as another poster wrote that her husband took on a 2nd wife. I wonder even in situations where the husband has a 2nd, 3rd, 4th wife etc. I can somewhat understand in situations where the wives live in the same house or at least are in touch with one another on a regular basis…enough to understand each other’s personality/lifestyle/daily activities etc to have some level of trust. But in situations where the wives don’t know each other… live in different cities…even continents…how can 1 wife not be freaked out about the health possibilities of that situation? 1x is all it takes to end up with a life sentence.