Re: How to raise Bicultural kids ?
My daughter the other day was asking dady why there was no women prophet ?
What does a female prophet have to do with you allowing your son to have female friends vs sending ur daughter to an Islamic HS? Im sorry i don't mean to be rude or get personal with u, but that's hwat it sounds like... extreme double standards.
Re: How to raise Bicultural kids ?
When did I say there was not any ?
You said that the answer to that question was why you believed that it was OK for your sons to go to prom but not your daughters.
You are making your own assumptions and then placing allegation on me , what double standards are you talking about ? I have already cleared that I did not have much knowledge about what happens at proms. My knowledge about proms was limited to what I have seen in TV programs or movies which necessitated my need to go with my boys to proms to make sure that they do not indulge in those activities. But after reading the input from the boys and girls and parents who have first hand knowledge about proms my views have changed. So take a chill pill and do not pass judgments based on your or other's assumptions.
What's your point? It still sounds to me like you're still far more open to the idea of your sons attending prom as opposed to your daughters. Even if you were basing your opinion on what you had seen in TV and movies, the fact remains that you were more willing to let your sons attend and be in that "un-Islamic" setting (albeit with supervision) than your daughters.
I would have respected your opinion more if you had said that you didn't want any of your children to go...that's your prerogative as a parent, and at least you would be maintaining equal standards of behavior for all of your kids.